You Can’t Control the Chaos—But You Can Control Your Energy, Your Environment and Your Parenting.
Rebecca Weltmer is a trauma-informed speaker and award-winning author who helps parents, professionals and organizations navigate high-conflict co-parenting with clarity, emotional regulation and child-centered strategies.
Signature Talks
1. Parallel Parenting Without the Power Struggle
Learn how to disengage from conflict, set boundaries and co-parent without constant emotional disruption.
Audience Takeaways:
- Clear boundaries that reduce conflict
- Communication strategies that prevent escalation
- Tools to stay grounded under pressure
2. The Calm Parent Method
When the other parent won’t change, your power is in how you respond.
Audience Takeaways:
- Emotional regulation techniques that actually work
- How to respond vs. react in triggering situations
- How to model calm leadership for your children
3. Raising Resilient Kids in High-Conflict Environments
What children truly need to feel safe, secure and emotionally protected.
Audience Takeaways:
- How conflict impacts children long-term
- What builds resilience (and what damages it)
- Practical ways to create emotional safety
Engaging With
- Family law professionals
- Therapists & mental health organizations
- Schools & parent communities
- Empowerment, leadership and survivor-focused communities
- Conferences & wellness events
About Rebecca
Rebecca Weltmer is the award-winning author of Escaping the Co-Parenting Trap: The Empowerment Handbook for High-Conflict Co-Parents. Through her work, she empowers individuals to move from reactive survival mode into calm, intentional leadership that protects their children and restores personal peace.
Her approach combines lived experience with trauma-informed strategies, giving audiences practical tools they can immediately apply in real-life situations.
What Audiences Are Saying
“This isn’t just a book, it’s a movement. It gives survivors of high-conflict co-parenting the resources, direction and strength they need to move forward. It’s the book I recommend for anyone dealing with a high-conflict co-parent.”
- SANDRA FUENTES RN, BSN, MSW
AUTHOR, HEALTHCARE PROFESSIONAL
“As a victims’ advocate, I know how isolating and exhausting high-conflict co-parenting can be. Escaping the Co-Parenting Trap speaks directly to survivors with honesty, compassion and practical tools that actually work. It validates what so many go through while offering real strategies to create peace, protect children and rebuild confidence. This is a resource I would gladly recommend.”
- DORA GALINDO
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ADVOCATE
Book Rebecca to Speak
Rebecca is currently booking speaking engagements, workshops and panel discussions.
For inquiries, please submit the contact form below